Highest recommendation possible!
Belinda is a fair, considerate, and flexible attorney. Not knowing what to expect, she walked us through everything. It's obviously a sensitive situation, and for the handful of difficult obstacles that came up she helped guide us to a fair resolution.
Belinda is a fair, considerate, and flexible attorney. Not knowing what to expect, she walked us through everything. It's obviously a sensitive situation, and for the handful of difficult obstacles that came up she helped guide us to a fair resolution.
06/23/2018
Fair, impartial and very professional.
Divorces are never easy, but Belinda made this as seamless as it could have been for me. She asked all of the right questions, and was skilled at keeping emotions in check so that we could come up with an outcome that both parties could live with. She is fair, impartial and very professional. She quickly drafted the legal agreement and the whole process went smoothly. I am so thankful that Belinda was there to assist us through this difficult time.
Divorces are never easy, but Belinda made this as seamless as it could have been for me. She asked all of the right questions, and was skilled at keeping emotions in check so that we could come up with an outcome that both parties could live with. She is fair, impartial and very professional. She quickly drafted the legal agreement and the whole process went smoothly. I am so thankful that Belinda was there to assist us through this difficult time.
03/26/2018
Belinda offers the best of both worlds. Not only is she a lawyer, but she's a mediator.
I started out unsure if hiring a lawyer or trying a mediator was the best course in finalizing my marriage. Belinda offers the best of both worlds. Not only is she a lawyer, but she's a mediator.
I found the experience fair and equitable. Belinda maintains control of the meetings and helps you through areas not even considered. What could have been a nasty divorce turned out to be relatively quick and painless. I have recommended Belinda to others, and they've experienced the same.
She charges a flat fee regardless of number of meetings, phone calls, or document edits. Divorce can be expensive when hiring an attorney and extremely difficult to budget. Using Belinda gets you to a smoother resolution, no need for court appearances, and a clear fee plan.
Do yourself a favor and at least consult with a mediator before lawyering up.
I started out unsure if hiring a lawyer or trying a mediator was the best course in finalizing my marriage. Belinda offers the best of both worlds. Not only is she a lawyer, but she's a mediator.
I found the experience fair and equitable. Belinda maintains control of the meetings and helps you through areas not even considered. What could have been a nasty divorce turned out to be relatively quick and painless. I have recommended Belinda to others, and they've experienced the same.
She charges a flat fee regardless of number of meetings, phone calls, or document edits. Divorce can be expensive when hiring an attorney and extremely difficult to budget. Using Belinda gets you to a smoother resolution, no need for court appearances, and a clear fee plan.
Do yourself a favor and at least consult with a mediator before lawyering up.
09/23/2017
Belinda explained the process to us and we knew she was the way to go.
After being married for 23 years, my husband decided he wanted a divorce- out of the blue. The first time we showed up for mediation- I was a mess. Divorce is never easy, but Belinda explained the process to us and we knew she was the way to go. We were able to get everything handled very quickly, and move on without doing the "my attorney will speak to your attorney " game and spending a fortune on all the back and fourth. I didn't realize the average cost of a divorce is about 40K!!! Divorce is stressful enough without adding all the extra costs and anxiety - it wasn't going to happen for me- I could not have handled it! Belinda will literally get it done and is fair to all parties. She has a flat rate- which makes it so easy. She is straightforward and gets it done- the law is the law! On the final day of mediation- Belinda turned to me and said "I am happy to see you are going to be just fine" -I think I had stopped crying by then:) and she is right. I hope I never see her again...... unless it is in a social situation- because she is a gem of a person... but I don't want another divorce! Do yourself a favor and don't get caught up fighting over " stuff " and just get it done and move on. Thank you Belinda for making a horrible situation- bearable.... and honestly easier than I could have ever expected! My ( soon to be ex ) had actually picked a different mediator but decided Belinda was it for him as well. He is as happy as one can be after a difficult situation .... and feels things were very fair and amicable. I guess my point is to make one thing in your life easy during a very emotional time. Save the extra money for your kids, vacation or whatever- because both parties deserve it.
After being married for 23 years, my husband decided he wanted a divorce- out of the blue. The first time we showed up for mediation- I was a mess. Divorce is never easy, but Belinda explained the process to us and we knew she was the way to go. We were able to get everything handled very quickly, and move on without doing the "my attorney will speak to your attorney " game and spending a fortune on all the back and fourth. I didn't realize the average cost of a divorce is about 40K!!! Divorce is stressful enough without adding all the extra costs and anxiety - it wasn't going to happen for me- I could not have handled it! Belinda will literally get it done and is fair to all parties. She has a flat rate- which makes it so easy. She is straightforward and gets it done- the law is the law! On the final day of mediation- Belinda turned to me and said "I am happy to see you are going to be just fine" -I think I had stopped crying by then:) and she is right. I hope I never see her again...... unless it is in a social situation- because she is a gem of a person... but I don't want another divorce! Do yourself a favor and don't get caught up fighting over " stuff " and just get it done and move on. Thank you Belinda for making a horrible situation- bearable.... and honestly easier than I could have ever expected! My ( soon to be ex ) had actually picked a different mediator but decided Belinda was it for him as well. He is as happy as one can be after a difficult situation .... and feels things were very fair and amicable. I guess my point is to make one thing in your life easy during a very emotional time. Save the extra money for your kids, vacation or whatever- because both parties deserve it.
08/29/2017
Belinda is not only clear headed, intelligent and straightforward, she is filled with compassion for your well being -for the present day pain and the long term gain. She is not afraid to balance gentleness with firmness in keeping you focused on your long term goal of protecting your children from you and your spouses’ differneces. All in all she i s an inspiration and a comfort during a less than pleasurable process.
03/19/2010
Belinda did a good job for us!
We were going through a high asset and high conflict divorce. We had already spent over $100k with attorneys. She helped us work out the details and get the process finalized.
We were going through a high asset and high conflict divorce. We had already spent over $100k with attorneys. She helped us work out the details and get the process finalized.
03/18/2010
I can’t believe how fast and easy it was to get a divorce.
No drama, low flat fee, fair to both sides and the children were never hurt by an ugly court
fight. Why in the world would you do it any other way?
No drama, low flat fee, fair to both sides and the children were never hurt by an ugly court
fight. Why in the world would you do it any other way?
03/18/2010
Belinda is awesome..
Very understanding and she really helped me. Thanks Belinda!!!
Very understanding and she really helped me. Thanks Belinda!!!
03/04/2010
We met with a different lawyer prior to meeting belinda who left us feeling even more tense…
we then met with belinda who has a centering comfortable yet efficent style –she made everything seem easier not harder.
we then met with belinda who has a centering comfortable yet efficent style –she made everything seem easier not harder.
05/14/2009
While going through a divorce after a long marriage is a wrenching experience.
We actually found a wonderful person who did not take advantage of our vulnerability to enrich herself.
She was thoughtful, thorough and even handed during the entire proceedings which lasted a very short period of time. My wife and I left her office with our dignity and our friendship intact. I strongly feel this is the way to end a marriage.
We actually found a wonderful person who did not take advantage of our vulnerability to enrich herself.
She was thoughtful, thorough and even handed during the entire proceedings which lasted a very short period of time. My wife and I left her office with our dignity and our friendship intact. I strongly feel this is the way to end a marriage.
03/16/2009
I can whole heartedly recommend Belinda’s service.
My ex and I live in Temecula and made the drive based on a friend’s recomendation. Belinda kept us on point and any disagreements we had she was quick to difuse. I can only imagine how much time and money we saved. Not to mention that this process helped my ex and I walk away friends.
My ex and I live in Temecula and made the drive based on a friend’s recomendation. Belinda kept us on point and any disagreements we had she was quick to difuse. I can only imagine how much time and money we saved. Not to mention that this process helped my ex and I walk away friends.
12/22/2008
You are truly a peach!!!!
I was devastated with the whole idea of having to be involved in a divorce I never wanted. Belinda truly made it as quick and painless as possible. Through her expertise in counseling, her experience, and wisdom, I was able to resume my life almost immediately. I did get remarried within a year and gave birth to a be autiful baby boy. Through Belinda’s efforts, my ex-husband and I experienced less trauma from our divorce and are more effectively able to parent the child that we share. I am a devoted Christian and believe that Belinda is truly a gift from God.
I was devastated with the whole idea of having to be involved in a divorce I never wanted. Belinda truly made it as quick and painless as possible. Through her expertise in counseling, her experience, and wisdom, I was able to resume my life almost immediately. I did get remarried within a year and gave birth to a be autiful baby boy. Through Belinda’s efforts, my ex-husband and I experienced less trauma from our divorce and are more effectively able to parent the child that we share. I am a devoted Christian and believe that Belinda is truly a gift from God.
11/18/2008
I wanted to thank you for how much you helped us handle this whole thing.
We were able to end our marriage with minimal aggravation and a continued ability to parent our children and in great part, it was due to HOW we divorced (with you). It has meant so much to us in the past two years to maintain a friendship, allowing us to enjoy the kids’ sporting and school events, social gatherings with mutual friends, and even holidays and birthdays. I don’t often hear of a smooth divorce, as it is usually a difficult and exhausting process. I believe that once you find yourselves against each other in court, the chances are slim of proceeding in an agreeable manner because it becomes a lose-lose situation. Your knowledge, guidance, and sense of humor led us through a potentially hazardous time. We have come out on the other side and are doing fine. Our family thanks you!
We were able to end our marriage with minimal aggravation and a continued ability to parent our children and in great part, it was due to HOW we divorced (with you). It has meant so much to us in the past two years to maintain a friendship, allowing us to enjoy the kids’ sporting and school events, social gatherings with mutual friends, and even holidays and birthdays. I don’t often hear of a smooth divorce, as it is usually a difficult and exhausting process. I believe that once you find yourselves against each other in court, the chances are slim of proceeding in an agreeable manner because it becomes a lose-lose situation. Your knowledge, guidance, and sense of humor led us through a potentially hazardous time. We have come out on the other side and are doing fine. Our family thanks you!
11/17/2008
We were relieved to find an attorney who would work with both of us instead of trying to create
a fight… Avoiding court by working together saved more than just money. We can raise our children without bitterness because we dealt fairly with each other. We divided complicated assets like my royalties in a fair way with no court. Divorce mediation is the right solution for smart people.
a fight… Avoiding court by working together saved more than just money. We can raise our children without bitterness because we dealt fairly with each other. We divided complicated assets like my royalties in a fair way with no court. Divorce mediation is the right solution for smart people.
11/17/2008
You’re worth every dollar of your fee and then some.
I know. You are incredible at what you do. My ex-husband, Ralph, and I are still very close friends thanks to your guidance in our divorce.
I know. You are incredible at what you do. My ex-husband, Ralph, and I are still very close friends thanks to your guidance in our divorce.
11/13/2008
We have spent $100,000 on attorney fees in the past 11 months and we were no where near the end
of our custody/divorce case. When I found Belinda in the yellow pages, it said we could do this peacefully. I saw she had 100% success rate but we had fought so much I really didn’t believe it was possible for her to help us. I was running out of money and knew we needed to try something else. After meeting with Belinda for one hour, we were in agreement. I am so impressed by the speed, low cost and the fairness she helped us create. Thank you so much for all you have done.
of our custody/divorce case. When I found Belinda in the yellow pages, it said we could do this peacefully. I saw she had 100% success rate but we had fought so much I really didn’t believe it was possible for her to help us. I was running out of money and knew we needed to try something else. After meeting with Belinda for one hour, we were in agreement. I am so impressed by the speed, low cost and the fairness she helped us create. Thank you so much for all you have done.
11/01/2008
Fortunately I knew Belinda before my divorce or would have gone the “normal route”.
My husband and I had already raised our children and did not have assets so it was really a simple divorce however through normal channels, we would each have had to retain our own attorney at a huge cost in $ and time.We were given a little homework to do in order to be sure we were in agreement then met at Belinda’s office and were done within an hour. She was professional and comforting through this difficult and painful process. I have referred many people to her who have been very satisfied with her service.
My husband and I had already raised our children and did not have assets so it was really a simple divorce however through normal channels, we would each have had to retain our own attorney at a huge cost in $ and time.We were given a little homework to do in order to be sure we were in agreement then met at Belinda’s office and were done within an hour. She was professional and comforting through this difficult and painful process. I have referred many people to her who have been very satisfied with her service.
10/05/2008
My divorce in a day experience made a very unpleasant experience much easier to get through.
Because the environment between my ex and I was not hostile or greedy, through mediation we were able to reach an amicable and fair settlement while preserving our integrity. We didn’t want to use a lawyer as we didn’t want to pay their fees and were plann ing on doing the divorce ourselves until a friend referred us to Belinda. She was explained the process to us very well and took us through the process quickly and efficiently. I have recommended using a Mediator/Belinda to other people I know who are either considering a divorce or who did not know mediation was an option to using a lawyer. She helped my ex and I successfully navigate through a very difficult and sensitive time by her being not only professional, but concerned for both parties well being. This is something that I highly doubt a divorce lawyer would ever do. She made sure the settlement was fair for both of us and set boundaries so that if, out of guilt or surrender, one was not giving up more than the other. By using Belinda and not adding any more anger or hurt to the separation process, it helped me maintain a civility and respect for my ex that would not have existed had I employed the services of a lawyer. I am very happy we chose Belinda’s services over a lawyer. She was very easy and professional to work with. A lawyer would have cost at minimum about 7,000.00 and damaged beyond repair my ex and my already broken relationship. She cost us less than half than that and allowed my ex and I to get through the process and still remain amicable and able to “stand”
each other.
Because the environment between my ex and I was not hostile or greedy, through mediation we were able to reach an amicable and fair settlement while preserving our integrity. We didn’t want to use a lawyer as we didn’t want to pay their fees and were plann ing on doing the divorce ourselves until a friend referred us to Belinda. She was explained the process to us very well and took us through the process quickly and efficiently. I have recommended using a Mediator/Belinda to other people I know who are either considering a divorce or who did not know mediation was an option to using a lawyer. She helped my ex and I successfully navigate through a very difficult and sensitive time by her being not only professional, but concerned for both parties well being. This is something that I highly doubt a divorce lawyer would ever do. She made sure the settlement was fair for both of us and set boundaries so that if, out of guilt or surrender, one was not giving up more than the other. By using Belinda and not adding any more anger or hurt to the separation process, it helped me maintain a civility and respect for my ex that would not have existed had I employed the services of a lawyer. I am very happy we chose Belinda’s services over a lawyer. She was very easy and professional to work with. A lawyer would have cost at minimum about 7,000.00 and damaged beyond repair my ex and my already broken relationship. She cost us less than half than that and allowed my ex and I to get through the process and still remain amicable and able to “stand”
each other.
10/05/2008
Belinda masterfully kept my husband and I focused on each particular item we were trying to resolve.
I thought she was objective and fair, and I think my husband thought that too. She was knowledgeable and, although sometimes blunt, she conveyed compassion. Her past experiences as a child of divorce kept the children’s feelings in consideration. I do think there could be a much better name…something along the lines of Peaceful Divorce Mediation.
I thought she was objective and fair, and I think my husband thought that too. She was knowledgeable and, although sometimes blunt, she conveyed compassion. Her past experiences as a child of divorce kept the children’s feelings in consideration. I do think there could be a much better name…something along the lines of Peaceful Divorce Mediation.
10/05/2008
I can't rave about Belinda Rachman ENOUGH...she is clear, honest, and cuts to the chase...She gave us a flat fair fee...and we never looked back...went to an arbitration attorney before...and it was all this "back and forth" stuff...with naturally their fees going up and up.....Going thru a divorce is NO Fun....you are emotional and there are many factors..the last thing you need is an attorney...muddying up the waters...Go with Belinda...her expertise...her knowledge and her HEART are UNMATCHED!!!
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02/14/2016